I don’t really set resolutions anymore. I haven’t in a while actually. I never keep them, so I don’t see the point. But I might make two general goals for my life since they seem to be consuming it. 1. Communicate better, more effectively and 2. Worry less. I am not sure how to go about either of them though. Where is the line in communication between saying everything you think and being able to talk about stuff. I know why I keep stuff to myself, but I’m confused as to what is ok to let go of and what is ok to keep inside. According to my husband, I should tell him everything. Well… I get what he is saying. That I SHOULD be able to share everything with him. I don’t share everything with ANYONE. At all… ever. Not even me. So how in the world am I going to share everything with him and why is he so offended that I don’t, when I don’t with anyone. (I feel like he and I have had this argument before…) Why can’t he just understand that I don’t share some things with anyone? Am I wrong… or is he wrong… Who knows. So, the goal is to try and figure out the lines and cross them appropriately.
Worrying less is pretty self explanatory. I worry about everything. I’ worrying about this post. The goal is to eat the elephant one bite at a time. And to hold on to that phrase when I REALLY get to worrying.
So… those are my goals. Not resolutions… cause I won’t keep them if they’re “resolutions” just like no one keeps their resolutions… Goals. Woo!………….